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Oh, I see.  Well, thank you for assisting Zsolt.

The only files I could find and delete were:

/System/Library/Extensions/iSpy.kext
/Library/iSpy
/Library/LaunchDaemons/com.taoeffect.ispyd.plist

I can't seem to figure out how to do that trick you are mentioning about holding down the option key.  When do I hold it down and where is "places to go"?  Sorry.

NEVERMIND!  I Googled how to find this folder and found a helpful link (see below) then I was able to remove the first 3 files you mention and I'm fine now.  Thank you again.
http://www.macworld.com/article/2057221/how-to-view-the-library-folder-in-mavericks.html 

I am actually getting a pop-up whenever I start (I've rebooted 3 times  :-\).  I can't figure out how to add the image of the pop-up but here's what it says:

   ERROR
   Couldn't establish communications with iSpy. Error 1.
   Try restarting  your computer and/or running
   Espionage.  EspionageHelper will quit now.